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“Living
with Argentina’s most abandoned people”
- Edmund Rhatigan, volunteer 2004
Edmund
Rhatigan, a medical student from Bolton, writes about two months
spent working as a volunteer in homes for abandoned people in
the remote Argentinian town of Oberá.
“Gooaal,”
I cried in a poor imitation of South American football commentators.
With his arms held aloft and with the broadest smile imaginable
Samuel let out a squeal of delight as he celebrated another goal
and victory. The old M&B football card game that I brought
out with me proved a big hit and many hours were being whiled
away as England and Argentina locked horns.
Samuel
is a young man of 20 or 21, one of a large family, and as I write
his mother is at an advanced stage of another pregnancy. Probably
disabled from birth Samuel was born into a very impoverished family.
They were unable to care for him and a few years ago he was found
ill, undernourished and living in sub-human conditions in the
family home (a wooden shed built on hard clay at the end of a
long dirt track). Shocking and tragic stories such as these are
commonplace in Misiones, a peripheral province in the North Eastern
corner of Argentina, where the vast majority of families, normally
large in size, are acutely impoverished and where there is a complete
absence of social welfare coming from central government.
Fortunately
for Samuel help was at hand from St Teresa’s Home in Oberá,
the second city of the province. St Teresa’s is a residence
for abandoned people with disabilities founded and run by Divine
Word Missionary Fr Liam Hayes, an Irishman from Cappamore in County
Limerick. For seven weeks in July and August St Teresa’s
was to be my home. I was to have the privilege of being a member
of Fr Hayes’s special team, to learn a little about life
there and see how the other three quarters of the world live.
Fr
Hayes founded the home in 1993 after coming face to face with
disabled people abandoned by their poor families who through no
fault of their own were unable to look after them. The fortunes
of the various residents have changed dramatically for the better
and after years of neglect and in some cases abuse they now find
themselves in a clean, secure and loving environment. Unfortunately,
for many the damage is irreversible. One resident, Miguel, was
terminally disabled, very fragile and prone to infection; during
my stay he spent many a day in the local hospital and to our sadness
he died recently.
Nonetheless
the transformation in every single individual has been startling
and in the light of what each of the residents has been through
I was amazed at the joy and happiness I found in the home. During
my short stay I had the pleasure of making lots of new friends
and of getting to know each and everyone of the residents; to
a person I found them all full of life and joy, appreciative of
any company and friendship I could offer them. A good case in
point was Loraine, a lady in her mid-thirties, suffering and slowly
dying from Huntingdon’s disease, which has already accounted
for her two siblings who died in front of her in the home in recent
years. Every day is a constant struggle for chair bound Loraine
as she shakes and as the phlegm flows continuously, making speech
and feeding very painful. Yet everyday as we held hands and shared
a few words she exhibited her radiant smile and said that everything
was ‘muy bien’! and this remarkable and generous woman
proceeded to respond to Fr Liam’s reassurance that she was
in all our prayers by replying that he was in hers. Which was
most moving when one considers her own suffering, a living saint
no less. Beautiful moments like these were not infrequent and
helped ensure that my seven weeks in Obera were unforgettable.
This
is all a testimony to Fr Liam and the small, dedicated team of
workers he has collected together, all of whom have a vocation
for the job. Seeing them work nearly everyday of the week and
all hours; washing, cleaning and caring for the residents and
with such good grace is a very humbling experience. They are very
natural with the residents tending to them with great care and
attention as if they are their own children or siblings. Their
great love for the residents was particularly evident when two
members (Marcello and Jorge) of the community fell ill and later
died. Every hour of every day during their spells in hospital
there was always somebody by their bedside and back in the home
each day the daily rosary was dedicated to them and their health.
Their funerals and burials witnessed a considerable outpouring
of grief but also the coming together of the entire community;
residents, staff to give their brothers a fitting send-off. The
dozens of freshly dug graves at the cemetery was a chilling reminder
of the realities of life in Misiones and the scale of the problem,
sadly many others will not be so fortunate and will not have friends
and family by their sides at their final moments and nor will
they be given such a dignified and warm goodbye. This love and
unswerving belief in their mission is very special and it needs
to be as all the staff are of humble means and have families of
their own. Many of them are very young too; Raquel and Paula two
inspirational ladies of 22 are mature beyond their years and are
both married with children.
The
wider remit of the homes is to serve the wider community by providing
medical care and supplies for many in dire need. On one occasion
I joined the delivery of a crate of food to a family of 14 living
in a hut designed for two people. Fr Hayes has many other responsibilities
too. He celebrates Mass most days of the week in outlying chapels
around Oberá. He is also in charge of the health pastorate
for the local diocese of Posadas but it was his work as chaplain
to the local hospital in Obera that made the greatest impression
on me.
On
numerous occasions I accompanied the priest into intensive care
and throughout the hospital as he administered the last rites,
gave communion and made general pastoral visits to the patients.
Hospital Samic, with only 120 beds serving a population of 60,000,
is a place of great suffering. It is an institution more concerned
with employing people than with curing the sick; though resources
are scarce, doctors and nurses are far outnumbered by bureaucrats.
Most real healthcare is confined to the private sector, so that
very little is done when poor people like Ariel become seriously
ill. As a result Fr Hayes is a busy man and has a very harrowing
time comforting and praying for the many ill and dying people.
It is not unknown for him to spend over an hour visiting people
at one time or for him to be making visits in the dead of night.
The toll this takes is enormous and often after a draining session
in the hospital Fr Liam unwinds by taking his pack of what can
be best described as wild dogs for a run, an experience I was
fortunate enough to be able to share. Having rounded them all
up with the help of a young neighbour we would drive off in the
priest’s unmistakeable red truck, six dogs in the back with
their heads dangling over the side producing a cacophony of noise.
This daily ritual sends all the other dogs in the barrio into
a mad frenzy and they follow in hot pursuit of the truck. As we
continue along our way dogs rush regularly out onto the road and
bemused locals look on. It makes for a surreal scene.
Most
volunteers in the homes of Oberá discover that they receive
a great deal more from the experience than they can give; there
is the chance to live in solidarity with those less fortunate
than yourself, to grow in awareness of their plight, to discover
that you care and want to do something about it. The experience
is a reminder of how fortunate and privileged we are in the first
world and gives us a new reference point from which to see how
minor our problems/sufferings are. By coming face to face with
the injustice and inequality that we hear and see so much about
in the media at home and by entering the lives of real people
and making new friends the general problem is personalised and
the poor of the third world are no longer a faceless amorphous
mass. For me as a Catholic it was special to attend Christ in
his most abandoned friends and to live and work for seven weeks
in the company of living saints
As
the founder of Cheshire foundation, Captain Leonard Cheshire once
said, it is only through small projects on the ground that real
change can be effected; bit-by-bit, attitudes and lives can be
changed. Throughout history it has been seen that far reaching
change is not necessarily achieved in the corridors of power but
at grassroots level by ordinary people. Apart from transforming
the lives of the people here, the enterprise demonstrates how
the first world can empower the third world to help themselves
and it is thus a part of the greater struggle for the poor and
forgotten people of the world without a voice.
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